IN LOVING MEMORY OF

Ruby Jean-Gray

Ruby Jean-Gray Patterson Profile Photo

Patterson

Dec 31, 2018 — Dec 31, 2025

Obituary

Ruby  Jean-Grey  Patterson,7,  passed  away  unexpectedly  on  December  31,  2025,  in
Leavenworth,  KS.
She  was  born  12  weeks  premature  on  December  31,  2018,  weighing  only  1lb  6oz,  to  Robert  E
Patterson  Jr  and  Mercedes  M  Swanagan  in  Lawrenceville,  GA.  She  was  the  last  triplet  born,
and  only  girl  of  the  bunch.  She  has  4  brothers  that  miss  her  dearly.  She  was  a  student  at  David
Brewer  Elementary  School,  attending  the  Autism  Room,  where  her  favorite  activity  was  eloping.
She  was  full  of  sass  and  although  she  was  mostly  non  verbal,  she  had  a  lot  to  say  and  was
becoming  skilled  with  her  AAC  device.  She  loved  to  help  in  the  kitchen  and  always  liked  to  help
fix  things.
She  is  preceded  in  death  by  her  grandmother,  Anita  Clemons
She  is  survived  by  her  mother,  Mercedes  Patterson-Swanagan  (Leavenworth,  KS),  father,
Robert  E  Patterson  Jr  (Topeka,  KS),  4  brothers,  Robert  Patterson,  Kalel  Patterson,  Bruce
Patterson,  and  Charles  Patterson(All  of  Leavenworth,KS).  Maternal  grandparents,  Mark  and
Gloria  Swanagan(Kansas  City,  KS),  Maternal  aunts,  Pavielle(Maurice)
Swanagan-Yancey(Chicago,IL),  Maserati(Owen)  Swanagan-Hamilton),  Jasmine
Swanagan(Indepencence,  MO),  Markita  Swanagan(Kansas  City,  KS),  cousin,  Skye
Yancey(Chicago,IL)
Thank  you  to  the  community  of  Leavenworth  that  has  came  together  to  honor  our  baby  girl
during  this  difficult  time.  Words  will  never  be  sufficient  to  express  our  appreciation.  Thank  you  to
everyone  that  has  reached  out  to  provide  support,  food,  prayers,  and  guidance.  Thank  you  to
our  family  that  has  shown  up  and  been  by  our  side.  While  the  list  is  long,  this  is  in  no  way
inclusive  of  everyone  that  has  stood  with  our  family  during  this  tragedy.  Special  thanks  to  the
following  people,  organizations,  and  families:
William  Robinson
Chandra  Fairley
Leon  Davis  III
James  Diggs
Wendell  and  Paula  Cathey
Walter  McCullum  Jr
Kevin  Reddick
Girl  Scouts  Family
Delta  Sigma  Theta,  Leavenworth  Alumnae
St.  James  CME  family
Sunflower  Baptist  Church
My  cousin:  Natasha  Denmark
Bro  Jesse  Daniel
Cousin  Marilyn  &  Joe
Noble  Marlon  Bates
Dawn  Torrain
Elvis  Spearman
William  Gamble
Ken  Wilson
Mariah  Wiese
Barbara  Luetke
Arlene  Jackson
Joana  Scholtz
Str8  Edge  Barbershop
Pastor  Nicky  Wright
Uncle  Joseph  Clark
Aunt  Mildred  Walker
James  Gladden
Travers
LaVaughn  Dillings
Marq  Thomas
Robert  Stahly
George  Johnson
Georgette  Diggs
Anna  Gregory
Irysha  Walker
Margaret  Dixon
Orient  Consistory  #19
Koran  Temple  #33
Ms  Tammy
Zion  Travelers  Missionary  Baptist  Church
William  Brown
Inspire  ABA  Therapy
Tina
Sisters  Encouraging  Sisters
Mrs  Hladky
Letha  Haley
Leo  and  Carla  Clemons
Joyce  Jones
Angie  Thomas
CSCS
Christopher  Hullaby
Dorothy
Funeral  Service  will  take  place  on  Monday,  January  12,  2026
Location:  Sunflower  Baptist  Church,  Hyman  L  Jarrett  Community  Center,
1708  5th  Ave,  Leavenworth,KS  66048
Visitation:11am
Funeral:12pm
Repast:2pm

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12

Monday

Sunflower Baptist Church

1708 5th Ave, Leavenworth, KS 66048

11:00 am - 12:00 pm

Funeral Service

January
12

Monday

Sunflower Baptist Church

1708 5th Ave, Leavenworth, KS 66048

Starts at 12:00 pm

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