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Ruby Jean-Gray
Patterson
Dec 31, 2018 — Dec 31, 2025
Ruby Jean-Grey Patterson,7, passed away unexpectedly on December 31, 2025, in
Leavenworth, KS.
She was born 12 weeks premature on December 31, 2018, weighing only 1lb 6oz, to Robert E
Patterson Jr and Mercedes M Swanagan in Lawrenceville, GA. She was the last triplet born,
and only girl of the bunch. She has 4 brothers that miss her dearly. She was a student at David
Brewer Elementary School, attending the Autism Room, where her favorite activity was eloping.
She was full of sass and although she was mostly non verbal, she had a lot to say and was
becoming skilled with her AAC device. She loved to help in the kitchen and always liked to help
fix things.
She is preceded in death by her grandmother, Anita Clemons
She is survived by her mother, Mercedes Patterson-Swanagan (Leavenworth, KS), father,
Robert E Patterson Jr (Topeka, KS), 4 brothers, Robert Patterson, Kalel Patterson, Bruce
Patterson, and Charles Patterson(All of Leavenworth,KS). Maternal grandparents, Mark and
Gloria Swanagan(Kansas City, KS), Maternal aunts, Pavielle(Maurice)
Swanagan-Yancey(Chicago,IL), Maserati(Owen) Swanagan-Hamilton), Jasmine
Swanagan(Indepencence, MO), Markita Swanagan(Kansas City, KS), cousin, Skye
Yancey(Chicago,IL)
Thank you to the community of Leavenworth that has came together to honor our baby girl
during this difficult time. Words will never be sufficient to express our appreciation. Thank you to
everyone that has reached out to provide support, food, prayers, and guidance. Thank you to
our family that has shown up and been by our side. While the list is long, this is in no way
inclusive of everyone that has stood with our family during this tragedy. Special thanks to the
following people, organizations, and families:
William Robinson
Chandra Fairley
Leon Davis III
James Diggs
Wendell and Paula Cathey
Walter McCullum Jr
Kevin Reddick
Girl Scouts Family
Delta Sigma Theta, Leavenworth Alumnae
St. James CME family
Sunflower Baptist Church
My cousin: Natasha Denmark
Bro Jesse Daniel
Cousin Marilyn & Joe
Noble Marlon Bates
Dawn Torrain
Elvis Spearman
William Gamble
Ken Wilson
Mariah Wiese
Barbara Luetke
Arlene Jackson
Joana Scholtz
Str8 Edge Barbershop
Pastor Nicky Wright
Uncle Joseph Clark
Aunt Mildred Walker
James Gladden
Travers
LaVaughn Dillings
Marq Thomas
Robert Stahly
George Johnson
Georgette Diggs
Anna Gregory
Irysha Walker
Margaret Dixon
Orient Consistory #19
Koran Temple #33
Ms Tammy
Zion Travelers Missionary Baptist Church
William Brown
Inspire ABA Therapy
Tina
Sisters Encouraging Sisters
Mrs Hladky
Letha Haley
Leo and Carla Clemons
Joyce Jones
Angie Thomas
CSCS
Christopher Hullaby
Dorothy
Funeral Service will take place on Monday, January 12, 2026
Location: Sunflower Baptist Church, Hyman L Jarrett Community Center,
1708 5th Ave, Leavenworth,KS 66048
Visitation:11am
Funeral:12pm
Repast:2pm
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